beliefs

I stayed in my first marriage too long. I was afraid to leave because I had a fear of being alone. So I stayed, even though I knew it was better for both of us to make that clean break. It took more time than it should have to leave… “Being alone is scary, but [...]

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Approval Seeker or People Pleaser?

by Sherie on September 16, 2012

We all like a thumbs up…it’s nice to know that people appreciate something you’ve done… However, if you find yourself needing that approval…or desperately seeking approval…or being a people pleaser and being more concerned with what they think of you…that is a problem. That becomes an empty feeling…because the approval of others never will fill [...]

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Are you in a relationship where you aren’t getting the love you want? Or are you looking for a relationship and don’t have the love you want? Have you noticed that for some people, they have no problems getting the love they want…and yet, for others, it is a constant battle. Why is Getting the [...]

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Are You Living in Fear of Being Ordinary?

by Sherie on July 16, 2012

I had a client who asked me this question: “What if this is all I can accomplish? What if I am just going to be ordinary?”… That is an interesting question, and there are many ways to answer it… She was afraid that her life was not going to have meaning because she was afraid that [...]

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Have you been believing lies that others or you have been telling yourself? Don’t feel bad about it…it’s something we have all done at some point in time or another…and you don’t need to do it anymore. Richard Bach has an amazing quote: “The worst lies are the lies we tell ourselves. We live in [...]

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