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Self Development

Everything is relationship. That fact is one that I knew…and yet, it was brought home even more as I attended an intensive Licensed Master Practitioner of NLP TM training. When you attend one of these trainings, there is one underlying theme…the power is in being in the now. The past has gone, the future can be [...]

When we think of bullying, we think of children and of bullying in school or on the playground. The sad fact is that bullying can be just as much an issue for people in the workplace. Bullying is never easy to deal with no matter where or how it occurs. Bullies push boundaries. I have [...]

There is no failure

We’ve all been there…at a time in our lives where we believed that anything was possible…especially a healthy relationship. Then reality stepped in, we had a number of firsts…first boyfriend/girlfriend…first break up…first marriage…and for some of us, first divorce.  Along the way, the gleam wore off and we started to see things differently and then…this [...]

Do you have difficulty settingl boundaries in your relationships? Perhaps you think it is normal to merge with the other person, to become as one. It is a common myth.   “Respect yourself if you would have others respect you.” Balthazar Gracian What Can Happen in Relationships without Personal Boundaries? Financial problems Fidelity issues Violence [...]

perfection

Did you feel that you needed to be perfect growing up? Perfectionist tendencies are most often started when people are children. It can have its origins in the school system, in peer groups, or be handed down from parents through expectations. Recently, on Grey’s Anatomy, there was a very brilliant scene. Mark Sloan, a perfectionist [...]